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You are your own worst enemy

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Not too long ago, I saw a friend get a guest post published on a popular blogging site, a popular blog about making money online. I was amazed, even a little jealous.

Although I had gotten into the habit of making big asks, this was one platform that was still “off limits” to me. Maybe some day, I thought. So I sent my friend a message, asking him how he got his piece published.

Do you know what his secret was? You guessed it. He asked.

He sent an email with an idea, they approved it, and then they published it. In fact, this was the second time he had done this. So I did the same — and it worked like a charm.

We doubt ourselves, thinking we don’t have what it takes. We give in to fear and sabotage ourselves before we even begin. We are our own worst enemy.

Recently, I encouraged a friend to email a leader he admired. He wouldn’t do it. He had already made up his mind. This person was just too busy to respond. After I all but forced my friend to do it, the person emailed him back immediately.

My friend couldn’t believe it, because he had already said “no” for him. Turns out, most people are this accessible. We just have to believe they want to hear from us.

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Akin Babatunde is the CEO of Globaltech, a friendly world class company offering innovative and cost-effective solutions to start-up, small and medium scale businesses in the following areas - Online Advertising, Internet Marketing, Graphic Designs/Printing/Corporate Stationery Designs/Publishing, Writing/Editing Services, Webdesign and Web development. Akin is the author of the book "THE INTERNET: a town square for the global village.

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